| It took me a while to realize that I was, in fact, creating my own work. But I get it now and it excites me no end. It bubbled to the surface as I was going through the paces to become a psychotherapist in the early ‘90’s. When I began graduate school, I viscerally resisted any mention of the word “spiritual.” What does religion have to do with psychology?, I would rant. And rant.
After getting my degree and while working on my clinical internships, I began reading a few new age or contemporary spirituality books and really liked them, so I read some more. I took a handful of related classes here and there, went to a few workshops of authors whose books I’d resonated with and before long, even before I got my license to practice psychotherapy, I realized that, in essence, these books and teachers were all saying pretty much the same things. The concepts they espoused repeated over and over again and I thought that everyone else who’d bought the books and listened to the CD’s and attended the workshops was doing what I was doing: incorporating the concepts into their lives with dramatic results. I was dead wrong.
I discovered my misperception when, in my fledgling practice, a phenomenon of sorts revealed itself: clients talking earnestly about their affinity for these concepts and living lives utterly divorced from them. I saw then and there that my work would be to help bridge that chasm and it is my joy and privilege to support and encourage Spiritually Responsible Living. I welcome your presence here and look forward to the unfolding.
P E A C E ,
Steven
P.S. In 2008 I wrote and published a book about my experience after my partner died. On one level, it’s about me applying the concepts to that process, but that’s not why I wrote it. I wrote it to offer uplift and healing to anyone dealing with a loss experience and to gently challenge our beliefs about grief and loss. The responses I’ve received show me that it’s doing that and more in ways I never could have imagined. You can check it out for yourself – and even read the first chapter – at www.anextrayear.com. |

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